Sex Toys Versus Sex With A Partner
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Ever have a conversation with your friends regarding preference of sex toys versus actual sex with partner? If not, you should, especially with some alcohol and let me tell you that you find out more than you want to know about your friends whether single or married, gay or heterosexual.
Of course the conversation started after watching Fifty Shades of Grey because it was so easy to recap and compare real life to it. Flogging, blindfolds, restraint, anal play, silky sheets and getting it on just about anywhere. Ahhh yes those are the days of endless erotic, romantic, risqué and frisky escapades.
Or at least we thought in our 20’s, or maybe a one night stand in the land of dating, or the married ones. Do we still get frisky or is there a lull? Anyone have sex like Anastasia and Christian? Or do you rely on solo masturbation and a trusty dildo, or fuck me silly? So then our debate began….who has the most sex? Single or married? Oh boy did this get interesting…how many time a week? How long? Where? Was it intense? Quick? Romantic? What sex toys did you use? Where did you put them? Oh I never tried that position, that toy!.....Ahhh ….Wow you did what, with who? I love that fetish idea! With what sex toy? OMG no you didn’t! Ugh, I gotta try that! That’s how our conversation went for hours, and I mean HOURS of pure sex talk.
Needless to say we learned a lot about masturbation, g-spot vibrators, bondage, masturbators, fetishes and penis pumps! And surprisingly the ones we thought were the ‘quiet’ ones in the group where yet the most adventurous with sex. Somehow I always knew they were the go to frisky people!I’m not just talking about the who, what, where, when…I’m talking about their vast majority of their sex toy collections and their interest in experimenting in sometimes a taboo area.
But surprising there was no consensus among us, who has better sex…single or married? Heck I guess we’re all just a horny group and we love sex! Whether single, married or somewhere in the middle we all have sex toys, lull periods, intense gotta have it sex, and masturbate….well quite frequently!
They all know I work for a sex toy company and yes they are loyal customers but they sure do enjoy sex topics more than I thought. This makes me wonder, why didn’t we discuss these topics again? Oh that’s right - martinis and wine in the comfort of one another’s living room!No wonder there was so much buzzing….no pun intended!
Stay Frisky in your sexual indulgences!
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